
The introductory meeting is a high-stakes moment for both advisors and prospects, often nerve-wracking for both sides. Advisors must decide how to present themselves, respond to questions, explain complex issues in an engaging way, and propose and explain their long-term proposition. And at the same time, prospects are likely to feel vulnerable and equally nervous with their own set of concerns – how to present themselves to the advisor, what questions to ask, and how to explain their issues while still feeling competent. For many, this may be their first-ever meeting with a financial advisor, adding another layer of uncertainty (and potential anxiety) beyond simply evaluating fit.
In the 157th episode of Kitces & Carl, Michael Kitces and client communication expert Carl Richards discuss how advisors can alleviate a prospect's anxiety by setting clear expectations for the introductory meeting – both in terms of logistics and emotional preparedness. They highlight how even small details – such as providing directions, clarifying meeting logistics, or outlining the purpose of the conversation – can help prospects feel more in control, making the experience smoother and more productive for both parties.
For most prospects, showing up comfortably and feeling their very best can be challenging when they don't know what to expect – whether it's where to park, how formal the meeting will be, or whether they need to bring any financial documents. While these details might seem minor, they can create unnecessary stress in the lead-up to the meeting. Even prospects who have met with advisors before may find that every firm runs a slightly different introductory meeting. By taking a moment to provide clarity, advisors can make a meaningful difference in setting the right tone and allowing prospects to engage with confidence.
One effective way to alleviate some of the nervousness is to give prospects a clear outline of the call in advance of the meeting. This roadmap can be as simple as a brief email (or similar document) covering basic logistics and setting clear expectations. The email may discuss practical details like directions, parking, and dress code, and include a brief meeting agenda with potential next steps. It may also include a list of which documents to review, bring, or – perhaps just as crucially – not bring. These small but thoughtful details can offer reassurance to prospects, helping to reduce pre-meeting anxiety and allowing them to focus on the conversation itself.
Ultimately, the key point is that small, intentional efforts to reduce uncertainty can go a long way in helping a firm stand out. As while prospects are often bracing themselves for a high-pressure sales pitch, a well-crafted pre-meeting email immediately signals a different experience – one that prioritizes comfort, clarity, and meaningful dialogue. By eliminating distractions and providing a clear roadmap that outlines expectations in advance, advisors can help settle a prospect's nerves the day of the meeting – which, in turn, can lead to more productive conversations and stronger client relationships!